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Chris La Tray's avatar

I'm happy to read this. I've been an evangelist for this kind of disconnecting for years. Most people nod and agree and then do nothing much to even try and adjust to this kind of embrace of the world. I was among those foolish enough to believe that, after the Covid shutdowns – when so many people had these experiences similar to yours, many for the first time – maybe things would change. I don't think they have. It feels like people have doubled-down, in fact.

I mentioned in my newsletter the other day the folks who are capable of posting so many links to articles and podcasts and the like. It's something I don't understand, that level of constant intake of information, all day, all the time. It breaks my heart a little bit because what good really is it? It's a personal choice, I know, and I try not to be judgmental, but oof. No wonder I feel like I can't really relate to most people.

People think they can't live without all these attention bandits. They could. They can.

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Lindsey Melden's avatar

Beautifully said. And I also resonated with the “static” image - will think of that the next time I’m feeling foggy and need a disconnect.

That cabin is breathtaking. And your nutcracker! ❤️

I am one of those people who tends to link - I find I’m often trying to credit people, or I’m just excited to make more connections - but it can be overwhelming and unnecessarily distracting. Good to think about small ways we can call our attention back.

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Lisa Bechtold's avatar

Love the message and that essay by Dillard is perfect!

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Beth Ellington's avatar

And you even bring up Annie Dillard. Just wow.

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Bill Swaney's avatar

This. One thousand times this.

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Ben Ellington's avatar

The static evaporates... I love this phrase.

Find the person who makes the static evaporate for you.

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Devakai's avatar

I expect you may have, as I did enjoy the Blackfoot phone and internet silence of what was it, 30+ hours just a day ago. Addictions fill the little hungry and empty spaces and sometimes have a knack for working underground so we don't see their workings unless we are very alert and in touch with what is real in us as opposed to the virtual. Thank you for the post.

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